Hello medicos. Starting college can be very overwhelming: new place, new people, new routine. The only thing that can ease this process is the right type of friends. We all stick to the first good people that we find in college. Wondering if you’ve found the right ones? Here are 10 signs that you’ve made a good friend in your first year of college.
1. THEY TALK
I cannot stress on how big a thing this is. People won’t talk and then will hold a grudge against you for something you do not remember you did wrong. It is a blessing to have a friend who talks when they feel a certain way about something. Plain old communication.
Bonus tips if they tell you the truth that nobody else is telling you. Please tell me if I’m embarrassing myself.
The cherry on the cake is active listening. Where they are receptive to what you say too. It’s like the perfectest package of a friend.
2. They Don’t Make You Feel Small
Medicine requires a lot of group study. You learn and teach each other. It is important to be kind while explaining again and again.
Also, there will be a budget difference too. You do not want someone who will belittle you for what you can afford.
Basically, if you’ve found someone who accepts your limitations, you’ve really lucked out.
3. They Say Sorry
Everyone makes mistakes, but good friends own up to them. Saying sorry is a sign that they value your friendship and hold it important. Saying sorry even when something hurt you unintentionally is the biggest sign proving that you’ve got yourself a caring and humble friend.
4. They Don’t Gatekeep Study Resources
College is very competitive, it’s essential to have friends who can think with their heads and not with their need to be better than everyone. Good friends don’t hoard study materials or notes. They understand the importance of taking you along in the path to success.
5. They are your Exam Survival Kits
Even when they don’t have exams, they’re there to help you prepare for yours. Whether it’s teaching you, offering moral support, or even just helping you with the room. They will have your back.
They will help you through situations that do not even involve them. They will go out of their way to make things easier for you.
6. Respect and Acceptance.
People who can accept differences instead of dwelling on them are rare. They don’t make fun of your differences or pressure you into doing things you’re uncomfortable doing.
They might have different opinions, but they do not mock yours. They are mature and can put these superficial things aside.
7. They Say No to a lot of Gossip
When someone starts gossiping or talking negatively, they don’t engage a lot. Instead, they try to change the topic. This shows maturity and kindness. They understand that talking negatively about others can come back to bite you.
You should not befriend people who keep talking bad about other people, or you will be the topic of discussion soon.
8. They Celebrate Your Successes with you
A true friend is genuinely happy for your achievements and successes. They celebrate with you, in small canteen treats or a movie night. Any celebration is a celebration.
These friends will be great to come back to even after medicine is done.
9. They are Dependable
They come through with their promises. They do not leave you hanging after plans. Show up every time and show up on time. They value your time as much as they do theirs.
They respect you and your priorities. You can count on them for help, especially when you are sick.
10. They Can Laugh With You
Most importantly, you share a genuine connection with them. You feel like you are understood. They have a similar sense of humour. They like hanging out with you. They make time to include you in their schedules. They do not leave you out of their plans. They appreciate you.
It’s nice to have a friend who genuinely enjoys your company and does not just stay with you because of convenience.
Conclusion:
I’m sure that you are smiling because you just realized that you have found a gem of a friend in college. Send this blog to them.
Don’t forget to give back as much as you get from these friends. Cherish them and add to their lives too. Keep supporting each other. In such competitive professions, it’s good to hold onto the two or three people who understand us.
All the best in your journey, and may you find friends who make your college years very memorable. 🙂
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